Homemade Leave-In Conditioner Hair Detangler

Homemade Leave-In Conditioner Hair Detangler. This stuff works great! ONLY three ingredients!

I was only six years-old in 1991. I can remember like it was yesterday begging my mom for big hair. Not just any big hair. I wanted 1991 big hair with Shirley Temple style ringlet curls.

Big hair was an important accessory needed to complement my bleached denim overalls and tie-dyed shirts. It was that year, my mom finally spoke the words I had waited so long to hear (it seemed like “so long” as a six year-old) , “YES!”

The big day finally arrived. My mom turned our living room into a full-working beauty salon. A few hours later my first perm was complete. I ran to the my parent’s bathroom to check out my new do.

The excitement only lasted for so long. Perms only last so long. Within a few months my hair went back to my natural straight locks.

Even after the style of the ’90s passed (although the clothing of today is starting to reflect the outfits I wore in first grade…who decided to bring back faded overalls??), I’ve longed for big curly hair. Maybe it’s one of those “the grass is always greener” scenarios. I want what I can’t have– gorgeous curls!

Homemade Leave-In Conditioner Hair Detangler. This stuff works great! ONLY three ingredients!

Three years ago, my second child was born. Londyn was quite the surprise baby. She was delivered in less than four hours, naturally. Just for perspective, Piper was born after a thirty-six hour labor so four hours was quite the surprise! Londyn also surprised us by weighing in at 10 pounds 6 ounces. She was quite the chunk, and oh so cute.

The greatest surprise of all (granted, she’s only three now, so I’m sure there are many more surprises to come) appeared around her first birthday with the sighting of a ringlet curl. Two years have now passed since her first birthday, and that one little ringlet has turned into big, gorgeous curls.

While I haven’t been able to achieve the curls I so desire, I’m now living vicariously through Londyn.

The end.

Wait, just kidding. There’s more.

We have a DIY recipe to talk about.

Homemade Leave-In Conditioner Hair Detangler. This stuff works great! ONLY three ingredients!

As Londyn’s hair grows, I’m learning curls can be very hard to care for.

Curls just can’t be combed with a “regular” hair brush and tied back in a ponytail. Oh no, that’s a recipe for pure disaster, at least that’s been my experience with Londyn’s hair. Curly hair must be delicately cared for in very specific ways. A gentle comb and moisturizing detangler are essential to maintaining Londyn’s voluminous curls.

Homemade Leave-In Conditioner Hair Detangler. This stuff works great! ONLY three ingredients!

Thankfully, a homemade leave-in conditioner/moisturizing detangler recipe is very easy to make. Not only is it super easy to make a homemade detangler, the ingredients work better than most store-bought products (in my opinion)! In fact, I’ve tried a lot of hair detanglers on Londyn’s hair over the last year and a half, and by far the homemade version is the best. Let’s take a look at the super effective ingredients that make such a great detangler:

Homemade Leave-In Conditioner Hair Detangler. This stuff works great! ONLY three ingredients!Note: Yes, there was an outfit change between the first picture (above) and the next picture. Morning routines must go on, even when Mom needs a blog photo.

Homemade Leave-In Conditioner Hair Detangler. This stuff works great! ONLY three ingredients!Glycerin: Glycerin is a sugar alcohol derived from plants or vegetable fats (there is also a synthetic version which I recommend staying away from). Glycerin is used in many beauty products due to its moisturizing properties. Glycerin is known as a “hygroscopic.” This means glycerin pulls moisture from the air.  This is why glycerin makes a fantastic detangler! On its own glycerin can destroy the hair and strip it of moisture, but when diluted glycerin softens the hair and even reduces frizz.

Aloe Vera Gel: Aloe vera gel comes from the aloe vera plant. The gel (found inside the leaves) is great for moisturizing the skin and hair. Aloe not only attracts moisture to the hair, but also seals it in. Aloe also contains many minerals which are beneficial for the body (including the hair and skin!).

Essential Oil: This ingredient is completely optional. If you would like to add essential oils for scent, I recommend going with an oil that may provide some beneficial properties to the hair. Orange, lavender, and rosemary are great oils to add to this recipe.

Homemade Leave-In Conditioner Hair Detangler. This stuff works great! ONLY three ingredients!

Let’s recap today:

The ’90s: First perm. Big hair.

Overalls: Please don’t bring them back, Target.

Londyn: My beautiful surprise baby girl–4 hours, 10 pounds. Woah, look at that gorgeous curly hair.

Leave-In Conditioner/Hair Detangler: Magic moisturizing hair juice. It’s a must!

Homemade Leave-In Conditioner Hair Detangler. This stuff works great! ONLY three ingredients!

Homemade Leave-In Conditioner Hair Detangler
 
Author:
Serves: about ½ cup
Ingredients
  • 1 TB aloe vera gel (where to buy)- I believe you can also use pure aloe juice.
  • ½-1 TB glycerin (where to buy)-this amount depends on your hair. I recommend starting with ½ TB and working your way up to a higher amount. Almost 1 TB is perfect for Londyn, some people may need more or less.
  • 5 TB distilled water
  • 10 drops essential oil: lavender, orange, or rosemary* are my favorite.
Instructions
  1. In a spray bottle, combine all the ingredients. Give the bottle a gentle shake until the aloe vera is combined. That's it! Store the detangler at room temperature.
To Use: Spray the detangler on wet or damp hair (I've also used this on dry hair, but wet or damp hair is best). Let the detangler rest for a minute on the hair, then brush. Apply more detangler as needed.
Notes
The “where to buy” links provide links to the actual products I use. As always, I recommend shopping around online and at local stores for the best prices and products you love. Find my favorite DIY ingredients and tools, here.
 

Ingredient Notes

*Rosemary essential oil isn’t recommended for children under 10 years-old.

When you introduce water into a product without a preservative you always run the risk of introducing bacteria, so use water-based products quickly.

Recipe Variation: If you don’t have aloe on hand, skip it! I’ve used glycerin and water many times when I don’t have aloe available.  I like the moisturizing benefits and even the “hold” aloes provides curly hair, but for a simple detangler just glycerin and water also work great. Use the same recipe as above, just omit the aloe.

Climate Note: Glycerin may cause the hair to swell when it’s applied in a very humid environment (remember, glycerin pulls moisture from the air). If you live in a very dry climate, glycerin may cause hair breakage. The bottom line: If you don’t live in an extreme climate, diluted glycerin is a great hair product.

Homemade Leave-In Conditioner Hair Detangler. This stuff works great! ONLY three ingredients!



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29 Comments

  • Brandi says:

    Kristin in your climate note were you referring to the alternative recipe of just glycerin and water or to the original recipe with Aloe vera? I live in the desert and as excited as I am about this recipe (and I really am!!)I’m worried about the climate and the glycerin now. Any thoughts?

    • Kristin Marr says:

      Hey Brandi, The glycerin is the main cause of concern in humid or very dry climates. Since the glycerin pulls moisture from the air, it may not have that moisture in a desert climate so it may try to pull it from the hair and cause some breakage. I’m not sure exactly what qualifies as too dry or humid for glycerin, but it’s important to keep in mind. I recommend mixing together a bottle and spraying the dentangler on a very small area of your hair for a few days, and observe how your hair reacts.

  • Adelle F. says:

    Rosemary and lavender will also repel lice, making this a great one for grade schoolers hair! They make commercial leave ins and detanglers with those scents that are marketed for just that purpose.

  • Leah says:

    Hi Kristen! As a curly girl myself and mother of a 4 year old and 19 month old with curls, this is awesome!! I’ve been making a similar one with coconut oil, as it really helps with frizz (with the added help of gel and mousse, haha). Just an FYI, but not shampooing daily will do wonders for curly hair. I only shampoo the kids hair on Saturday night and Wednesday. The other days I just wet their hair and co cleanse with conditioner and I always add product when their hair is wet, before bed. It helps with the tangles!

  • Celina says:

    I’m a curly haired girl as well! Those tangles can be a disaster. I use a coconut milk mixture now, can it be mixed with the aloe gel and glycerin?

    Also, what do you use to shampoo your daughters hair? I’ve switched to the “no poo” method, I like it but am always looking for new ideas. Just wondering if you have or have heard of success.

  • Wow found your website today trying to avoid buying more carols daughter for me and my daughters hair. Breaking the bank! I am making the detangler as you say… and yes I do the no shampoo because every time I shampoo it even with the carols daughter it makes more knots than if I don’t shampoo it at all. I saw your recipe for the coffee creamer and I bow at your feet. Thank you for an awesome blog I bookmarked you.

  • masuda says:

    IS TB means Tub

  • Marian says:

    My daughters both have very curly hair. I will definitely have to try your recipe. All the others just say to use water and conditioner but I think it leaves an icky coating on their hair. Also, you should try thing brush. It’s AMAZING!

    http://www.amazon.com/SALE-Tangle-Hair-Brush-Set/dp/B00GOJMIWO/ref=sr_1_7?s=hpc&ie=UTF8&qid=1454612003&sr=1-7&keywords=no+tangle+brush

  • Angel says:

    Hi Kristin really thankful for sharing this beautiful tip I never posted any comments in any site but I really impressed with your tip and please kindly reply to my question.
    I have very dry and very very tangled hair so I used so many store bought products but store bought products have very harsh chemicals I taught of switching into homemade leave in conditioner but the only problem with the homemade products are they are not handy to travel and they should always store in a refrigerator.

    The above detangler spray which you have mentioned can be stored in room temperature? how many months can we store the spray in room temperature? can I keep the spray in my bag and use it whenever my hair is tangled? Is the spray handy to travel with it ? please do reply

    • Kristin Marr says:

      Hey Angel, Yes, the spray may be stored at room temperature. The spray will last 1-2 months at room temperature. Due to the water in the recipe I wouldn’t go any longer than a couple of months. While I think this spray works best on wet hair, I’ve used it on my daughter’s dry hair. If the spray is stored in a travel-size bottle, I think it would be very handy to travel with.

  • Angel says:

    Eagerly waiting for your reply

  • ANGEL says:

    Thank you very much Kristin.For sure I will try this spray but a quick question can I extract aloe gel from the fresh alovera plant or shall I buy the aloe gel from the store? If I use fresh aloe gel from the plant then does the spray last for 2 months? Or shall I store in refigerator If I use fresh aloe gel from plant?

    • Kristin Marr says:

      Hey Angel, If you can find a “cleaner” aloe vera gel (I like Real Aloe brand), then I recommend using the bottled gel. If you can’t find this, then fresh aloe should work, but the detangler will have a very short lifespan (just a few days or a week).

  • Kathryn says:

    Hi kristen i love your recipe for both my daughter and for my curly hair. I do wish to let you know however that rosemary e.o. is not recommended for children under the age of 10. I stumbled across this when i was researching eucalyptus for congestion in toddlers. I would just air on the side of caution and either substitute or leave out entirely. I’m going to keep using it on my hair because i love it, but mix her up a new batch with maby some rosewood oil.

    • Kristin Marr says:

      Hey Kathryn, Thank you for sharing! Yes, you’re correct about the recommendation due to chemical constituents called cineol and menthol, and the issues that can arise. It’s always best to research before adding any oils to a product–I’m glad you’re doing this!

      PS: I’ll make sure to make a note next to the rosemary recommendation :).

  • Terri says:

    Thank you so much for this! My daughter has really fine, curly hair. Every morning it is such a pain to comb her hair. This worked so well and it leaves her hair so soft! Thank you for sharing all your great ideas!

  • Julia says:

    Hi There,

    I love all your recipes however, recently after doing some research, I am some concerns around shelf life. How long can this product last considering it has both aloe and water in it which can attract bacteria fairly quickly? There are a lot of natural product recipes that use distilled water and aloe and I have recently learnt without a preservative these can’t be used for long. As your very knowledgable it would be great if you could consider writing an article on the shelf life and safety or bacteria in natural products?

    Julia (a very big fan of your blog as it changed my life for the better)

    • Kristin Marr says:

      Hey Julia,

      I’m so glad you’re enjoying the blog!

      Yes, the shelf-life of a product is greatly reduced when water is used. If fresh aloe is used, the shelf life is even shorter. For these products, I keep my recipe ratios very small, so the product is used within a few weeks, and it is usually best to keep products with fragile ingredients (like a milk or aloe juice that requires refrigeration) in the fridge. I haven’t found a preservative that I feel comfortable using, or one that’s readily available and effective in low quantities (like tea tree or rosemary essential oil).

      If you have the DIY Natural Cleaning Challenge, there are a couple of pages before the recipes that talk about safety, bacteria concerns, etc. I’ll work on getting this information on the blog, too. I would be happy to send you that information via your email later this week.

  • Karlea's Mom says:

    My 5 yr old daughter and I both have curls and the resulting difficulty with tangles. The best thing I have found so far is going no poo. Every product I bought for our hair did not work well. Once a week, I wash my hair with a flax seed “tea” and then I scrunch in a lot of aloe gel (a liquid-y type that has to be refrigerated). Over the course of the day, the aloe soaks in while also keeping my frizz calmed and my curls defined. At night, I brush each section of my hair with a boar bristle brush to distribute the sebum to the ends of my hair. I follow the same routine with my daughter’s hair, but I wash her hair with the flax twice a week, since she’s a kid and gets dirty sometimes (at the park, etc.). She loves when I brush her hair with the BBB (boar bristle brush). And I always use a comb when I put the aloe gel in her hair after her wash. I intend to exchange the pure aloe for your recipe and try that. Thank you for your work and your dedication to helping people find ways to live their own way. Hugs to you.

  • CNik says:

    Thank you so much for posting this. My hair tends to be quite dry, and I have tried many hair oils over the years. The only thing that really seems to nourish my hair is olive oil, so I was looking for a leave-in conditioner for in between hot olive oil treatments. This recipe has been awesome for my hair! Leaves it silky and soft. Thank you!

  • Kali Jay says:

    Is it possible to use tap or filtered water instead of distilled? Or possibly just boiled tap water?

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